Allāh loves you because He tests you. He tests those who He loves, so my dear brothers and sisters be patient. Imagine the reward.
May Allāh give us patiene to pass the tests.
Having children with autism or other disabilities/special needs will put great pressures and strain on the family. Majority of the time we are left to deal with everything from cleaning, cooking, and the list goes on! On top that we have to look after children who need looking after constantly aswell as there siblings.
This is a message to brothers/husbands to please help out with the housework and help your wife. The greatest example is to follow the Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam:
"He was like any other human being: he would clean his clothes, milk his ewe and serve himself." (Reported by Imaam Ahmad in al-Musnad, 6/256; al-Silsilat al-Saheehah, 671)
The Messenger of Allah sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam used to “sew his own clothes, mend his own shoes and do whatever other work men do in their homes.” (Reported by Imam Ahmad in al-Musnad, 6/121; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 4927).
Doing housework doesn’t undermine your status and position!
"When your heart has broken, you pick up every one of its shattered pieces, you hold them in your hands and you tell each and every one of them: We aren’t giving ourselves to anyone again- not wholly- not piece by piece- none of us- unless they’re right for our lives, unless they’ll help us become better people and come closer to God.
And then you glue the pieces together with duaa, you weave them together with tears in sujood, you mesh them together with reciting Qur’an, you polish them with self help books and advice from professionals on how to move forward, and then you place them back together- whole- exactly where they belong: Inside YOU.
Pieces of them may stay with those you love, glimpses of them may be reflected in your laughing with someone near to you, in your comforting of someone dear to you, in your care for someone who needs support, but it stays inside you, connected only completely with God and those who deserve its beauty.
This isn’t the broken of a dysfunctional home. This isn’t the broken of being an abused child. This isn’t the broken of a spouse who hurt you. This isn’t the broken of a friend who cut you off without reason, or a relative who seems insistant on not understanding your reality.
This is fixing the broken inside to equip it for anything. This is being triumphant over your own fears and anxieties. This is owning your heart- owing your life- so that when you come to God you can say, “My Lord, here I am, a whole person, a person who has forgiven, a person who took control of my life, my sorrow and my actions, by choosing to make my heart wholly worthy of You.” -Maryam Amirebrahimi
Over 100 unarmed Palestinian civilians including women and children were systematically murdered when terrorist Zionist groups Irgun Zevai Leumi and Lehi entered the village of Deir Yassin near Jerusalem on April 9, 1948. Never forget their suffering and never forget that the creation of the state of Israel was faciliated by the ethnic cleansing of Palestine (which still continues today).
GIFs: Occupation 101 (2006)
some much rage. Ya Rabbi, grant peace to the people of Palestine, grant them their land, have mercy on their souls and punish all Israeli’s who have wronged them. AMEEN.